Does true love really exist?
How does one define this true love? Well if I compare it to what is written in romance novels I might become skeptical.
When a relationship falls apart, it’s not the end of the world. Somewhere out there IS someone better for you that matches you perfectly but don’t get caught up in dreaming about it so much.
It might give you so much heartache that it might prevent you from moving on. Think to yourself, “is it completely necessary to have a love like this at this point in my life anyway?” Do what’s best for you and many times that is to heal.
We all yearn to find someone to give love to. All that truly matters is that you’re allowed to express your love to someone, no matter who it is. Love is not about selfishly receiving and possessing, it is about giving and sharing. When we give to whomever it is, be that partner, friend, son, daughter, brother, sister, mom, or dad, it feels good to give it to them. What we receive is the gratification of our love affecting them in a positive way. THAT is love, not the expectation to receive something back.
Love has nothing to do with what you are expecting to get, only with what you are expecting to give, which is everything. Katharine Hepburn
When you help others like friends, your children, or those in need, it fills you up with so much love that it gives peace and imprints a smile upon your face, perhaps more than what a single lover can do. Someday maybe you will find this type of love but don’t stress it or worry about what you’re missing out on. There is plenty of love to give right now in this present moment. This type of giving love in the present provides you with all the love that you’ll ever need right now.
Nothing can ever prevent you from loving, it is your birthright to be able to give it naturally. Don’t ever stop loving. There is an infinite supply that flows through you, when you allow it. Let the gates open and feel the gratitude for having this source of love flowing through you.
Be the love you wish to have and you shall receive it back. Don’t place any restrictions on how you want to receive it. There is love all around you at all times for the taking. Love is not only limited to one you give and receive from a single partner, but a variety of loving souls in the world willing to share it. Once you find these people, they’re appreciation for you will fill you up with so much joy. A recycling of love will be shared between you both. Find a friend, a relative, or someone in need. You will be filled with an overflowing abundance of love after you have given them that gift. Cherish that moment. <3
Give love no matter what,
“Friends can help each other. A true friend is someone who lets you have total freedom to be yourself – and especially to feel. Or, not feel. Whatever you happen to be feeling at the moment is fine with them. That’s what real love amounts to – letting a person be what he really is.”